we should live with and love them

in response to Digger's comment on integrity and incarnational mission
i think it's where it comes down to
whether we are gonna really love people
or just trying to get one on the score board
someone in my incarnational group at liquid asked the question
if hypathetically you could somehow know
that the people you are trying to reach
would never follow Jesus
would you continue to live with and love them
or would you move on
i would agree with his answer that
we should live with and love them
our attitude should be for us to be Jesus to them
not to get them to become like us